With careful detail Dr. Phil Chavez explains the key identities of men which are: husband and father. These identities are to be formed in men with particular attention in the university. A man’s character growth can be helped through bonding in fraternity that prepares him for the expected tasks. Dr. Chavez explains how these identities give men particular satisfaction that careers do not. True manhood means that a man meets a woman’s needs as best as he can. Ideas are presented to help men succeed in life as husbands and fathers.